Posts with tag: "wedding guests"
Wednesday, January 17, 2018
By Fabuluxe Events
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We have all been to weddings and events and we wonder...what the heck is wrong with some of these guests?!  So, I decided  to make a list of "Good Guest Rules."

 

Good Guest Rules

1.  Be on time - not too early and definitely not late.  We will not let you into the ceremony if the processional is still happening.   And when we do let you in, you will have to sit in the back.

2.  Do NOT take photos during the ceremony - We have had to move people out of the aisle so that the wedding party can walk down, grooms have been unable to see their brides as they walk down the aisle because of people leaning in with their phones or tablets.  Be in the moment.  It is an important ceremony...and take tons of photos at cocktails and the reception!

3.  Dress Appropriately - If the invitation says formal or black tie please wear formal or black tie.  If the invitation says resort chic or beach casual then khakis are appropriate.  Jeans are NEVER appropriate unless it is specifically stated on the invitation.

4.  Do not drink to excess - Just because there is an open bar doesn't mean you have to drink all of the alcohol...enough said.

5.  If you RSVP that you are attending, attend the event unless it is a major emergency (Like calling 911 emergency).  The couple has paid several hundred dollars for your meal, etc.   It is disrespectful to not show because you just didn't feel like it that day.

6.  If you are a female guest - Do NOT wear white.  The only time this is appropriate is if it is specifically stated by the couple that this is a black and white or all white wedding and they have noted the attire on the invitation or their website.

7.  Don't ask for a To-Go Box of your dinner - TACKY...

8.  Don't be rude to the waitstaff, or other wedding professionals.  Everyone has a job to do and wants to do it to the best of their abilities.  Sometimes, though you may have to wait a moment or two for your request to be filled.

9.  Have a great time and enjoy the celebration with the couple. 

 

After all a wedding is a celebration of two people in love making a lifetime committment to each other!  Have fun with it and make lifelong memories!

 

Photo Credit:  Shea Christine Photography

 
Tuesday, November 11, 2014
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Hi Y'all,  I hope everyone is enjoying this awesome fall weather (at least in Florida).  Wedding Season is ramping up and we can't wait for all of the amazing fall, winter and spring weddings coming up in the next few months!

A lot of people ask us what is the difference between Full Wedding Planning and a Day of Wedding Coordinator.  Many people think that hiring a full wedding planner is beyond their financial reach.  But that is not necessarily true.

 

Full Wedding Planner

Recommends vendors based on experience and their ability to deliver above and beyond service

Can sometimes help negotiate better pricing

Will understand the nuances of your family and family dynamics

Goes with you to planning meetings with other wedding pros to make sure your needs are communicated properly

Troubleshoots your wedding day and makes sure all things run smoothly

Knows that Uncle Bob only drinks Pepsi -not Coke - and makes sure his glass is never empty

Guides you through the etiquette of wedding planning

Makes sure no wedding details are overlooked throughout the planning process

 

Day of Wedding Coordinator

Creates your timeline of the day

Makes sure all wedding pros follow their contracts

Troubleshoots anything that pops up during the day

May NOT know the family dynamics and that Uncle Bob only drinks Pepsi and not Coke

Does NOT attend any vendor meetings or help negotiate contracts

 

Another thing to be wary of...many venues will say that they have an on-site wedding coordinator and that you don't need to hire one.  Ask your venue these questions - will their on-site coordinator stay at your wedding until the very last guest leaves? will their on-site coordinator help you with etiquette questions throughout the planning process - will their on-site coordinator create a master timeline for your entire wedding day/weekend- will their on-site coordinator deliver welcome baskets/bags to your out of town guests?  etc, etc, etc

 

Everyone has a job to do when planning a wedding. Our job is to create a magical day that you will never forget!  And to guide you through the process, help you understand the roles each pro plays in the wedding day and so much more!

We want your wedding to be a huge success.  So make informed decisions, do your research and remember that cheaper is not necessarily better.  You get what you pay for!

Hugs to all,

Jen,Mandi,Karlee and Jan

 

jennifer@fabuluxeevents.com

 
Wednesday, October 29, 2014
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Hey Y'All..

You have lots of family and friends coming from out of town for your wedding and they need a place to stay...or you are having a destination wedding and everyone is staying at the same hotel.  How the heck do you set up a hotel room block for your guests?

Here are some quick tips to make this process a whole lot easier:

1.  If possible have hotels in two price points...a bit higher and a bit more affordable.

2.  Contact the hotel where you wish to set up the block and speak with the group sales manager.

3.  Don't overestimate the number of rooms you will need...unless every single guest is coming from out of town...a number such as 10 rooms is a good place to start.  (Your college friends may be sharing up to 4 in a room, etc).

4.  Get the information in writing for the:

Room Rate

What dates that rate is available

(many hotels will give your guests the group rate a fews prior and a few days after your event)

What is the deadline for reserving a room in your group rate block?

(after your deadline the hotel will release un-reserved rooms back in the pool for the general public to reserve)

Is there a code or website link to use when your guests reserve their rooms?

5.  This is a biggie:  DO YOU HAVE TO GUARANTEE A CERTAIN NUMBER OF ROOMS IN YOUR BLOCK WILL BE RESERVED

Many room block contracts require a guarantee of up to 80% of the rooms to be booked.  This means if you reserve 10 rooms, 8 of them have to be reserved.  If only 5 are reserved you will have to pay the cost of 3 rooms to = 8 rooms.  

The guarantee is the hardest thing for people to understand and can cost you a lot of money if you don't understand it correctly.The guarantee numbers can be negotiated depending on several factors:  

How busy is the hotel during your room block dates

Is is the prime season for your hotel

Are you spending a large amount of money on food and beverage at your hotel?

6.  If you have hotel points make sure to ask if you get meeting planner points added to your account.

 

Just like anything else when planning your wedding, read the contract thoroughly and ask questions.  Don't sign or agree to anything until you fully understand the entire document.

Having all of your guests stay in one location is a blast.  So many impromptu get togethers happen, people reconnect by the pool or over breakfast.  It is such a great way to make your guests feel welcome and have fun!

We suggest looking at boutique hotels and hotels that are unique to your location.  That way your guests get to enjoy the local atmosphere.

Have fun and happy planning!

Jen, Mandi, Karlee and Jan

 

jennifer@fabuluxeevents.com