We have all been to weddings and events and we wonder...what the heck is wrong with some of these guests?!  So, I decided  to make a list of "Good Guest Rules."

Good Guest Rules

1.  Be on time - not too early and definitely not late.  We will not let you into the ceremony if the processional is still happening.   And when we do let you in, you will have to sit in the back.

2.  Do NOT take photos during the ceremony - We have had to move people out of the aisle so that the wedding party can walk down, grooms have been unable to see their brides as they walk down the aisle because of people leaning in with their phones or tablets.  Be in the moment.  It is an important ceremony...and take tons of photos at cocktails and the reception!

3.  Dress Appropriately - If the invitation says formal or black tie please wear formal or black tie.  If the invitation says resort chic or beach casual then khakis are appropriate.  Jeans are NEVER appropriate unless it is specifically stated on the invitation.

4.  Do not drink to excess - Just because there is an open bar doesn't mean you have to drink all of the alcohol...enough said.

5.  If you RSVP that you are attending, attend the event unless it is a major emergency (Like calling 911 emergency).  The couple has paid several hundred dollars for your meal, etc.   It is disrespectful to not show because you just didn't feel like it that day.

6.  If you are a female guest - Do NOT wear white.  The only time this is appropriate is if it is specifically stated by the couple that this is a black and white or all white wedding and they have noted the attire on the invitation or their website.

7.  Don't ask for a To-Go Box of your dinner - TACKY...

8.  Don't be rude to the waitstaff, or other wedding professionals.  Everyone has a job to do and wants to do it to the best of their abilities.  Sometimes, though you may have to wait a moment or two for your request to be filled.

9.  Have a great time and enjoy the celebration with the couple. 

After all a wedding is a celebration of two people in love making a lifetime committment to each other!  Have fun with it and make lifelong memories!

Photo Credit:  Shea Christine Photography

When you get to work with fantastic people amazing things happen.  We say it all of the time but we get to work with the most amazing people.  Martiza and Rob are so in-love, so kind, so generous and their emotions shined throughout their day.  

This spectacular wedding happened because of:

Venue - Henry Morrison Flagler Museum

Catering - C'est Si Bon Catering

Getting Ready Location - Four Seasons Palm Beach

Cinematography - Andreo Studio

Cake - Johnson's Custom Cakes

Linens, China, Glassware, Flatware - Atlas Event Rental

Entertainment - La Hora Loca/Black and Wine Events

Photobooth - Capture Pod

Photography - Shea Christine Photography

Transportation - Molly's Trolleys

DJ - Vision DJs

Florals - Dalsimer Atlas Event Design

Ceremony Music - Master Musicians

Wedding Planner - Fabuluxe Events

We had the awesome pleasure of working with Justine and Trent on their gorgeous yacht wedding.  An intimate ceremony was held on the Grand Floridian Yacht followed by dinner and dancing with music provided by Girlfriend Material.  Senior Fabuluxe Planner, Mandi, worked with Justine and Trent to create the perfect blend of tropical and elegant.  The day was pure perfection.  We adore these photos from Sara Kauss Photography!

What an honor to work with this amazing vendor team:

Getting Ready Venue: Wyndham Grand Jupiter
Ceremony & Reception Venue: The Grand Floridian Yacht at Harbourside Place
Wedding Planner: Fabuluxe Events
Florals: Southern Floral Company
Lighting: CBK Events
Catering: The Grand Floridian Yacht
Hair and Makeup: DG Pro-Darcy Goicochea
Cake: Johnson’s Custom Cakes
Music: Girlfriend Material
Bridal Gown: Wtoo by Watters
Bride’s Shoes: Badgley Mischka
Invitations: Minted

We had the great honor of working with Colby and Andrew on their Jupiter Wedding.  They are the sweetest couple and their wedding reflected their laid-back, casual vibe. 

The rehearsal dinner was held at the home a family friend and couldn't be any more Southern-Chic.  The wedding at Out of the Blue captured the South Florida Waterfront Lifestyle. 

We hope you enjoy the photos!

Thank you to everyone who made this day happen!

Getting ready:  Jupiter Beach Resort

Ceremony & Reception:  Out of the Blue, Jupiter, Florida

Photography:  Finding Light Photography

Florals:  Southern Floral Company

Hair and Make Up:  Lulu Gomez Hair and Make Up Studio

Music: DJ Donny Events

Hello out there!  I hope everyone is having a great January. 

So, we are in the middle of engagement season and the topic of budget is a big issue for newly engaged couples.  It can be awkward, uncomfortable and daunting to talk about budget when planning the wedding of your dreams.  

First and foremost...EVERYONE HAS A BUDGET.  Whether your budget is $10,000 or $100,000 it is still a budget and your ideas will need to fit within those parameters.

So here are some tips for handling the budget discussion.

1.  Sit down with both sets of parents.  Ask what, if anything, they are able to contribute. Sometimes it is a dollar amount. Sometimes they will say, I want to pay for photography or flowers up to a certain dollar amount.  But be up front and ask the questions.

2.  Talk honestly as a couple.  What can you two afford to contribute to the wedding expenses?  Be honest...Do NOT go into major debt to plan a wedding.  It is not a competition.  It is a wedding celebrating two people in love making a lifelong committment to each other.  

3.  Have realistic expectations.  You may have to sacrifice in some categories to get what you really want in other categories.    You can not have surf and turf, open-premium bar and a live band for 150 on $5,000...so something will have to give.  Be realistic.

4.  Set priorities.  If photography is a priority get the best possible photographer you feel comfortable paying.  If food is a priorty stretch the food budget and lower another category.  

5.  Carefully watch your guest list.  Less guests = less money.  It is that simple.  So Uncle Joe, three times removed does not have to be on the guest list if no one in your family has seen him since Reagan was President. 

6. Hire only professional wedding vendors, with wedding experience.  It will cost you far more in time and effort if you hire someone who is not a pro or let a family member handle certain things. 

7. Hire a fantastic Wedding Planner, like Fabuluxe Events.  Wedding planners will know which vendors and venues will fit your budget. They can help you negotiate contracts.  They can keep you on-track and sane during the process and that my friends, is priceless.

So remember, EVERYONE IS WORKING WITH A BUDGET.  They key is being realistic and honest about it from the very beginning.

And remember,
You Deserve a FABULUXE Day!
Jen
jennifer@fabuluxeevents.com 
561-254-2041