Hey everyone! We are launching our summer series of blogs with topics related to all things wedding!
As those wedding invitations arrive in the mail, it's time to think about what the etiquette and responsibilities when attending a wedding. We have compiled a list of things to consider when you're a guest at a wedding, such as what to wear and how to behave. Being a wedding guest is both an honor and a responsibility. It's vital that you show your respect for the bride and groom by following some basic etiquette rules.
- Do dress appropriately for the wedding. This means avoiding anything that is too casual or too formal. The invitation or wedding website should indicate wedding attire.
- Do RSVP in a timely manner. This lets the couple know how many people to expect and helps them with their planning.
- Do arrive on time. If the ceremony is at 5:00PM, try to arrive at least 15 minutes early. This gives you time to find your seat and settle in before the ceremony begins.
- Do turn off your phone during the ceremony and reception.
- Do be respectful of the religion and traditions of the wedding.
- Do be considerate of the other guests. This means not talking too loudly, dancing inoffensively, and being generally mindful of others.
- Don't wear white or anything that could upstage the bride.
- Don't get too drunk. It's fine to have a few drinks, but don't overdo it.
- Don't take photos during the ceremony. Wait until after the couple has had their moment and be present in the moment. Don't forget they paid for a professional photographer. Leave the photos to them.
- Lastly, don't be a diva. This day is not about you. Leave your drama at home!
At the end of the day, the wedding is all about the bride and groom. Make sure that you keep them in mind throughout the entire process. Be respectful, be considerate, and most importantly - have fun!
Your turn: Have you ever been a wedding guest? What are your best tips for being a great one? Share in the comments below!