Posts with tag: "wedding professional"
Monday, March 04, 2019
By Fabuluxe Events
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Hi All,

We are starting this week with some great info on what we call a FRIENDOR - A friend that also is a vendor...and it can be tricky!

I am sure that this has happened to everyone...you announce your engagement and suddenly everyone you know, knows a guy who does weddings.  It could be a photographer, DJ, caterer, florist...anything, and you have an inbox full of random names and contact information.

These people are what we call Friendors..and you should run far, far away.  A Friendor is someone who may do some family photography at Christmas and now wants to photograph your wedding.  A Friendor is someone who loves to cook and loves you so they want to "gift" you the catering for your wedding.  A Friendor is someone who loves music, has a huge Itunes collection and wants to DJ your wedding.  

All of these people have two things in common:

1.  They are somehow your friend, a family friend or relative.

2.  None of these people make their living in the wedding or event industry.

Please trust only professionals to handle your wedding.   We have seen relationships ruined by the hiring of a Friendor and then the Friendor is unable to perform properly, the quality of the finished product is poor and feelings are hurt on both sides.

Tell your Friendors - that "I would much rather you enjoy our special day and be in the moment and celebrate with us."  You can give them jobs such as readings, handing out programs, helping people find their seats at dinner, helping with the rehearsal dinner and so much more.

You have one chance on your wedding day to get amazing photos, eat spectacular food, keep the crowd on the dance floor. Don't take a chance.  If you hire amateurs you will get amateur results.

Keep Friendors as your friends!

Until next week,

Remember...You Deserve a Fabuluxe Day!

Jen, Mandi and Lara

 
Thursday, September 25, 2014
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Hi All,

Wedding season is off to a great start!  We are blessed to have been a part of Dustin and Katie's wedding and Kelsey and Bryan's wedding in September.  Looking forward to our exciting fall weddings in October and November. 

I wanted to write a blog about tipping.  Every bride and groom ask us our thoughts on tipping and their is lots of information out there.  Some of that info I agree with and some...not so much.

By definition:  a gift of money, over and above payment due for service

A tip is given for service that is above and beyone what was expected.  It is a gesture of thanks and appreciation.

So often in our business I hear people say..."you don't have to tip him/her she is the business owner. They make plenty of money." But that is missing the point.  The point of a tip is to say "thank you...I appreciate all you did for me."

We love getting a handwritten thank you note, a gift card to our favorite restaurant, a spa or the mall, and cash is good too.  It says "I value all of the late night phone calls, random texts, handling of family drama, etc...and organizing our wedding."

No, a tip is not expected by all vendors, including us.  

Please take the time to write a note to your vendors...give them a tip. Thank them for their hard work on your behalf.  Believe me, it will make their day. Honestly, we are all invested in you and your wedding and want it to be just as perfect as you do.

 

So have a great day! 

Best,

Jen, Mandi, Jan, Amelia and Karlee